I recently came across this Youtube video in the wee hours of the night, as one does, and it helped me come to a huge realization. It discussed habits. Not just your average regular day habits, but your future habits. Many, if not all of us, have some vision of what our future will look like. Who we will be, what we will be doing, maybe even who we will be doing it with. We have these goals set for ourselves from pretty early on, or at least I did. These dreams don’t just fall into our lap. Just think about this one thing. What are the daily habits of the person you want to be? Are they more confident in talking to people? Do they take care of their body and live a healthier lifestyle? Do they build strong, meaningful relationships with people around them? It could be as easy as waking up half an hour earlier because the future you is a morning person who jumps out of bed with enthusiasm. Whatever it may be, just ask yourself that. Then simply compare what you are doing now with what you are doing then. Do they match? Are they even similar? If they aren’t, it might be time to make a change. If you want it bad enough, you will. These habits don’t have to all be changed at once either. Good things take time, so take it slow and work up to it. Do it for yourself. This is who you want to be, so why wouldn’t you take the steps necessary to get there? It is all in your hands, take control of your life, and flip the switch.